Don't Give Up

2016 September 27

Created by Ritje 7 years ago
JiePie,
keeping my promise!

My husband and I shared a very strong bond. 
Throughout life we had our share of misfortune. 
Every setback we endured seemingly strengthened our connection even more. 


We made a promise to each other that if one of us should ever die the other would join. 

My husband became sick…
It took us a long time to get the correct diagnose … he suffered from very rare disease. 


At the end of his life we talked about the approaching death … he organized his own goodbye.

In one of our conversations … when he sensed that time was no longer on his side … he knew that I was willing to join him in death. 
He said: Ritje, you can not leave, not yet. 
I got a mission for you … you need to stay and fight our fight … against the disease MSA.

Multiple System Atrophy, … his disease …he needed me to continue and contribute so that a cure can be found. 


I made him that promise … but it’s a very hard promise. 
Sometimes I think it would have been better if I had joined him in death. 

But on the other hand, I feel that he is somehow still here. 
I feel his support, his presence. 

In moments of despair I feel he is there, like a pat on my shoulder, .. like he is saying “
don’t give up, you are doing a great job”, …     

2009 JiePie Died on December 27,
What is realised since his passing:
2010 First 'March is MSA Awareness Month 
2010 First World MSA Day on October 3  
2011 First JiePie Award for Research    
2011 First A Mile and a Candle for MSA  
2013 First Walk, Run or Cycle for MSA. 
2015 First time we walked around the World.   
     
1000 x Thanks to all participated @ the Walk, Run or Cycle and light a Candle for MSA  .
Collectively we count miles walked and attempt to circle the globe. All to symbolize our unity in the fight against MSA"

Ritje's Interview Radio 2  wired in 2015
broadcasted in Belgium 2015
and @ the Multiple System Atrophy Convention, New Orleans, US, 2016


Your loving Ritje !


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